Questions to ask kids

15 questions to ask a 6-year-old

Six is when the world gets bigger: reading, friendships with rules, a sense of fair and unfair. Questions about how things work, and about what’s fair, get long and serious answers.

  1. 1What is something that isn’t fair?
  2. 2If you were in charge of school, what would you change?
  3. 3What is the best book you’ve heard or read?
  4. 4What would you buy with a big bag of money?
  5. 5How do you think birds know where to fly?
  6. 6What is a secret you can tell me?
  7. 7What do you like most about our family?
  8. 8What would a perfect Saturday look like?
  9. 9What is something you used to be scared of but aren’t now?
  10. 10If animals could talk, which one would be the rudest?
  11. 11What do you want to learn how to do?
  12. 12What makes a person kind?
  13. 13If you could ask the whole world one question, what would it be?
  14. 14What would you invent to make life easier?
  15. 15What did you do today that you’re proud of?

How to get real answers

  • One or two questions, not the whole list. It’s a conversation, not an interview.
  • Ask side by side: in the car, at bath time, on a walk, at bedtime.
  • Don’t correct the answer. You’re collecting how they think, not checking it.
  • Write it down in their exact words, with their age. Ask the same question next year and compare.
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Keep what they answer, with their age on it.

Cuote keeps the funny things your kids say, and asks you a question like these on quiet evenings.

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