Questions to ask kids

15 questions to ask a 3-year-old

Three-year-olds answer in a sentence or two, with total confidence and very little regard for facts. Keep questions short and concrete, and expect the answer to wander. The wandering is the good part.

  1. 1What is your favourite thing to eat?
  2. 2What does a cat say when it’s happy?
  3. 3Where does the sun go at night?
  4. 4What is in your tummy right now?
  5. 5Who is your best friend?
  6. 6What makes you laugh?
  7. 7What are you scared of?
  8. 8If you were an animal, what would you be?
  9. 9What is the biggest thing in the whole world?
  10. 10What do you dream about?
  11. 11How old am I?
  12. 12What do you think my job is?
  13. 13What would you do if you were a giant?
  14. 14What colour is happy?
  15. 15What do you want to be when you’re big?

How to get real answers

  • One or two questions, not the whole list. It’s a conversation, not an interview.
  • Ask side by side: in the car, at bath time, on a walk, at bedtime.
  • Don’t correct the answer. You’re collecting how they think, not checking it.
  • Write it down in their exact words, with their age. Ask the same question next year and compare.
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Keep what they answer, with their age on it.

Cuote keeps the funny things your kids say, and asks you a question like these on quiet evenings.

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